I discussed this more with
Seeing as the "Bill To" address on the packing slip was myself, I decided to check my credit card statement. Lo and behold, there was a charge from the Franklin Mint for $300. This made even less sense. I certainly didn't remember ordering these cars, and though last week was tough and confusing, I seriously doubt I would have ordered model cars by mistake. I thought that maybe someone had stolen my card number, but then why use it to ship cars to me?
Finally, a dim recollection had entered my mind... my sister had asked to borrow my credit card number because she wanted to buy something for a friend but the site would only accept a US shipping address. She asked this the same day as
We celebrated by going out to Yellowfin Restaurant — a new Japanese place in town. One of their distinction is the presentation of their fancy rolls, so I decided to order the Champaign roll, which was baked spicy snapper around crab and cucumber. The roll was disappointing because it turns out they bake the whole thing, so you get something that tastes very little like sushi (rather than, say unagi, which is baked separately before being added to the roll). Plus the supposedly spicy sauce was more sweet than spicy. But everything else we had was quite good, so I think I might try going again sometime (when our budget allows) and try something more conventional.
The dinner party was held by my colleague who works in the office next door. He's Indian, so we had a number of yummy dishes, including a very nice coriander lentil sauce. Now our stomachs are happy and we can enjoy a quiet evening at home for the rest of the night — perfect for a snowstorm.
I was planning to go grade exams tomorrow morning, but given the snow, I think I'm going to stay home. We're still planning to go to Chicago tomorrow afternoon to celebrate our 8th anniversary of dating at Japonais and then pick up my mother from O'Hare. But by that time the snow should have been cleared. I'm really glad she's not flying in tonight!
I've been kind of in the mood for something more light and fluffy, like comedies or action flicks. Unfortunately, everything I can find in those genres seems like complete crap. My latest failed attempt was Firewall. From the preview it looked like a fun action movie with a silly premise. But the movie itself was so terrible, I seriously thought about turning it off in the middle. I can't tell whether the movie makers have simply gotten lazier, or whether my tolerance for bad writing, wooden acting, and cheesy plots has gone down with years, but I do yearn for the days when I could enjoy spending two hours watching something that's not at all serious. In hopes that it's not all just me, I'm asking you, my dear readers, for suggestions. Seen anything lately that has been shallow but fun to watch?
After the park we crashed out for a few hours, then went out to a Mediterranean restaurant where I had some manti. I had thought that it was just what I wanted, but turns out what I wanted was the manti we had had in a small place near Ephesus, and not the second-rate substitute we go here. Afterwards we watched "Pieces of April." I hadn't realized that cancer had a central theme in that movie, but it wasn't so bad. I liked it a bit better than Hedges' new movie "Dan in Real Life," though
My mother and sister are both on a big supplement kick and talked about preparing my body for tolerating chemo. I tried to look up some studies and found a few useful ones (Selenium, Magnesium, and Vitamin E), but there also seems to be debate about whether antioxidants help your body or interfere with chemo. More research is needed.
Living without a computer at home has been really weird. I've been able to devote more time to things like laundry, stretching, reading, and video games. It's refreshing, but after a few days I felt too antsy and finally broke down and borrowed

Poll #1029847 Hat switch
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Which logo do you like?
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17 (35.4%)
White hat![]()
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16 (33.3%)
Just the text![]()
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6 (12.5%)
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12 (25.0%)
We both have different favorites, but we're not going to say what they are to avoid influencing your votes!
It's really weird to see Google tell me "No new mail!", since I don't remember seeing that message in a long time. But it makes it a lot easier to remind myself to actually deal with email rather than leaving it in my mailbox, since it's much more manageable to deal with 1-5 messages than to look at a huge big inbox. It also makes email checking a less rewarding distraction, since when I get no new mail (it happens sometimes!), I see an empty inbox, rather than 1100 messages that I could be doing something about. I've done this once before, though, and it devolved back to a full inbox, so I'll report back in a couple of weeks how it's going this time.
fanlain and I almost had to answer that philosophical
question last night; we were starting to lose hope when it turned
past 6 p.m. and no guests had arrived. But finally the two people
who RSVP'ed held true to their word and arrived bearing ice cream
and wine. We had a nice evening, mostly focused around Soba in
both conversation and activities. They really liked the chicken (between
brining and using the rotisserie, it ended up being super-moist!) and were
surprised to learn that I, and not
fanlain, had made it.
I guess the other side effect of holding a party, whether anyone comes or not, is that we got to clean the house. Our kitchen is finally uncluttered (though some of the clutter moved to the office) and the floors are cleaner than they have been in months. The hard part about cleaning our house is that Soba relentlessly tries to attack the mop, broom, or vacuum, and will throw a huge tantrum if we lock her in her crate or outside while we clean. We're seriously considering throwing technology at the problem and getting the Scooba, not as much to save us the work (though that's certainly a welcome bonus), but to be able to run it while we take Soba to the dog park or the farmer's market.
I've been really enjoying how trips to the farmer's market have become our Saturday morning routine. Soba gets to enjoy a nice long walk and lots of attention, and we get to enjoy some tasty treats from Mirabelle's and some fresh stuff from the market. Our trip Saturday was prolonged by delayed baguettes: apparently, Mirabelle's had a power outage in the morning and were behind schedule. They kept promising that the baguettes would come first at 11, then at 11:30, and they finally put two baguettes (still hot!) into my hands just before noon. But we got sit outside, have a leisurly lunch, and talk with an ECE prof and his family, and even say hello to our dean (who didn't remember who I was). I guess that's one of the advantages of living in a small town.
- Mood:
accomplished
We made a todo list for the weekend and have made remarkable progress on it. I think usually we're over-optimistic and end up less than halfway through our list by the time our weekend is over, but perhaps we've started to learn. Our list for yesterday:
Farmer's market with SobaGive Soba flea & tick medsLunch at J's- Install sink (N) (halfway done)
Put together filing cabinet (N)- Put together IKEA desk
Buy salmonBuy letter files & Soba food (L)Plank-grill Salmon (L)Water front lawn (N)- Make travel plans for August
- File (L) (halfway done)
Our list for today was less ambitious, with lots of time allocated for work on my proposal. Unfortunately, the unfinished sink installation is likely to eat up a good chunk of that time, but it will be nice to have running water in the kitchen again. Plus I managed to sneak in an hour of work yesterday, so that's progress.
- Location:bernal heights
For the summer, my initial thought was to go to a later schedule, not having classes or other things to wake up for. But then again, it should be even easier to wake up at 6 in the summer, since it's light out by then, and since we don't have a social life to speak of, why wake up any later and miss the sunshine? So my plan was to stick with the earlier schedule... but the best laid summer plans always go awry, and between spending a week on the west coast and getting sick, I'm now very time-shifted. We're finally ready to get out of the house and get stuff done, and it's 1pm already! Ugh.
- Location:still home
- Mood:
lazy
So I spent last night putting together the grill, and today the gas guy came and drilled lots of holes and put a fitting outside. Finally, everything was set... just in time for the first rain of the month. I didn't give up hope, and there was a clearing just as I was heading home, so I decided to be ambitious and picked up a couple of grass-fed steaks. It started pouring as I got home and I tried to convince
Fortunately, the radar showed a promising lack of clouds to the west of us, so I stalled for another 30 minutes and the rain passed. (That's one thing I like about midwest weather: don't feel like getting wet? just wait 20 minutes.) I fired up the grill and cooked the steaks in record time; actually, I ended up overcooking them, but the middle was quite tasty. I also had some asparagus fresh from the farmer's market with my dinner, fried with olive oil and garlic. A yummy way to finish off the day. And yet another small step in the transition to suburbia...
- Mood:
tired
It's hard to believe that less than 3 weeks ago, both the flower bed and the veggie garden were a mass of overgrown weeds! Our next task is maintenance of the rest of the landscaping, including weeding, mulching, watering, and maybe pruning. As a first step, I ended up pulling out the two trees (!) that grew at the corner of our house. It's amazing; I think they weren't there when we moved in and now they had deep roots and were over 7 feet tall. I'm not sure what kind they were — perhaps oak? — but they sure are fast-growing.
- Location:shower
This morning I woke up around 7 and after some breakfast went back outside to work. I turned over the soil, added some "garden tone" and turned it over once more. Unfortunately, the soil was kind of wet and clumped to our tiller, so I ended up doing this all by hand with a trowel. Then it was back to Lowe's to pick up some mulch. After lunch, we decided that today would be a good day to get patio furniture, so we stopped by World Market to pick up a set we'd had our eye on. They only had one chair in stock, and they sold us a table that ended up being cracked, but at least we have a bench and a chair to sit on outside, and more stuff is on order.
After putting those together, it was time to turn back to the garden. I laid out all the veggies and herbs. It turns out we still have a fair bit of room for stuff, but there's a herb fest at the nursery next week, so I'm sure we'll find some way to fill it up. Then I layered on the mulch (and appreciated why some people use plastic sheeting as mulch: it took nearly a full Prius of mulch to cover our 100 sq. ft. of garden) and finally turned to the fencing. That turned out to be a daunting job and I finished only after sunset. The fence looks reasonably OK; it's crooked in places (esp. around the gate), in part due to our uneven ground and in part due to my inability to nail the stakes in completely straight. But it looks significantly nicer than Homer's spice rack, and much nicer than chicken wire, which was our other alternative. Of course, it remains to be seen if it in fact accomplishes its main goal, which is keeping bunnies away.
As I was lying exhausted on the couch after working basically sunrise to sundown, I turned to
1 Well, actually, I started the day by going to work out at the Mettler Center, which turned out to be completely superfluos given the rest of the weekend activities, but I hadn't been to the gym in about 2 weeks and was feeling guilty...
- Mood:
exhausted
Tomorrow's drive will be longer, but we're starting earlier and we're going to take her on a hike first, so hopefully it will go about as well.
- Location:memphis, tn
I'm dreading the switch to Daylight Saving time. It's funny, because when I first heard it announced, it sounded like a great idea, and it brings us closer to my oft-stated ideal of year-round DST. But times have changed, and these days I am up before sunrise. It is just getting to the point when it starts getting light around the time of my alarm, and of course, by Sunday, that will all be screwed up again. "Stupid farmers."
As I was jogging around Mission Bay, enjoying the freah air and the sunrise, I passed local residents jogging, walking their dog, or just out for a walk, and thought to myself "man, what I wouldn't give to live in California again!" And then about five minutes later I realized what — my current job. As stressed out as my life gets sometimes, I can't imagine doing anything that I'd enjoy more. I just wish every once in a while that it wasn't in central Illinois, but you can't have it all.
- Location:san diego
I arrived into the office to find everything dead — no cars in the parking lot, no people inside. But my meeting was on, since it was mostly attended by outside guests who were staying in the hotel across the street. (Most of them ended up being stuck for another night, since leaving CU just wasn't going to happen.) At 8:50, I got the email that classes for the whole campus were canceled. This seemed like really poor timing, seeing as some classes started earlier than that. (In further display of administrative genius, it was explained that people who called in before the cancellation would have to take the day as a personal day, whereas everyone else got the day off.)
I went home after lunchtime and made it almost all the way home, but got stuck on a small side street. The people who lived there pushed me back out and I tried to drive home a different way, taking care to drive slowly enough to maintain control but quickly enough to not get stuck again. I actually missed the turn onto our street, since it was hard to see, so I turned around and powered through the snow to about halfway up our driveway. Then it was time to get out the shovel to clear a path to the garage.
In the evening, we got another message from the chancellor, canceling classes for Wednesday as well, even though the snow had stopped Tuesday night. When I woke up Wednesday morning, I saw that the plows had already been down our street, but there was a huge snowdrift in front of our garage. I spent about two hours in the morning digging a path wide enough for one car through our driveway. Since the Subaru got damaged when it got stuck in the snow and started leaking antifreeze, we ended up taking the Prius to work this morning, which required making an n-point turn inside our garage so that it could go out the clear part. I finally decided to clear up another chunk of the driveway so that we could actually access both cars. Tomorrow's project will be clearing a path to the front door.
Tonight we had a power outage so we got to curl up on the couch by the fireplace while Soba ran around looking all agitated. It's funny how little of our house works when the power is out. We thought about taking a bath, since the water heater still works, but the forced air heater does not, so it would have been really cold getting out.
So I think I'll take everyone's advice and stick with having breakfast before going to work out. I'm still not convinced it's completely necessary: I made it through my workout fine this morning without food, and unless I have a really big breakfast, it's unlikely that I can get enough energy to get me through my workout anyway (at least if you believe the calorie meter on the elliptical that read out 600 for this morning), but I think the timing will probably be better.
6am - alarm goes off
6:10am - alarm goes off again, gets turned off
6:55am - finally drag myself out of bed, feed Soba, make coffee, have breakfast
8:05am - arrive at gym
9:15am - back from gym, shower
9:40am - leave for the office
10:05am - arrive at work (took a bit longer than usual due to snow)
So the good news is that, had I actually gotten up by 6, I could have made it to the office by about 9. The bad news is that it takes me over 3 hours from waking up to being in the office, which seems like way too long. Certainly the 6:55-8:05 period could have been compressed quite a bit. I wonder if things would be faster if I went straight to the gym and had a coffee there, and then had breakfast upon coming back. Maybe I'll try that tomorrow. Of course, actually getting up at 6 would help, too.
Went out this afternoon to try to catch Comet McNaught. Managed to see it, but most of the photos turned out not so great. As with everything in photography, I think I need better equipment: a longer lens and a better tripod (my flimsy one kept being blown around by the strong winds.) But it was a fun, if cold, outing. As I was packing up, another guy pulled up alongside; turns out he took some shots a few miles down.
- Location:61822
Looking forward to my 30th year, it promises to be quite boring in comparison. I'm not planning to acquire any new responsibilities and there aren't even any planned adventures. (As a matter of fact, I have not a single overseas trip planned for 2007, though perhaps that will change.) Some way to finish off my twenties, eh? But perhaps it's good to take year to breathe, catch up, and get used to my new life, new circumstances, new responsibilities, before introducing any new disruptive changes (which, if all goes according to plan, should happen during my 31st year.)
I hope you all are enjoying your holidays, and looking forward to seeing some of you on Sunday!
Anyway, there's only one way to respond to weather like that — go to California! I'm spending the weekend plus Monday in the Bay area. That is, assuming I make my flight. Fortunately, I'm avoiding connections and flying straight out of O'Hare (this meant that we had to fix our second car so that
- Location:snow storm
1 By "saving" I mean putting money towards increasing our net worth; in the near term, this will really be paying off some loans.
Poll #875629 financial planning
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What's in your financial plan?
Retirement projection![]()
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9 (37.5%)
Long-term life events![]()
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3 (12.5%)
Short-term life events (3-10 years)![]()
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11 (45.8%)
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4 (16.7%)
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11 (45.8%)
How much do you save? Include any retirement plan at work, but exclude employer contributions.
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1 (4.2%)
5% of income![]()
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0 (0.0%)
10%![]()
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1 (4.2%)
15%![]()
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2 (8.3%)
20%![]()
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6 (25.0%)
25%![]()
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3 (12.5%)
30%![]()
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2 (8.3%)
35%![]()
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1 (4.2%)
> 35%![]()
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3 (12.5%)
less than 0 (spending exceeds income)![]()
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1 (4.2%)
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4 (16.7%)
How much does your employer contribute towards your retirement?